Showing posts with label Chris Kane. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Chris Kane. Show all posts

Tuesday, 22 December 2015

Stepping off the merry-go-round

Day 23 (Wednesday 23rd December 2015)


23% of men (compared to 33% of women) would contact their doctor if they had felt low for
at least 2 weeks (according to research by 
Mind). Suicide is the biggest killer of men aged between 20 and 49.
Christmas is a time when many people feel low and isolated. It is crucial that we, as caring and
responsible members of society are aware, and speak out to cease the stigma of mental health.


One of the joys of hosting the Advent Blog series is the chance to catch up with people, and the blogs submitted make me contemplate the things that are important. Chris Kane exemplified this last year, when he remembered his schoolfriend and rugby playing mate, David, and described the move of London Irish rugby club to its new grounds and how that change was handled with thought and sensitivity - you can read his blog here. Again this year Chris is commenting on change and acknowledging the impact particular friends can have. Chris is an expert in property and the working environment. After many years in corporate life Chris now runs his own consultancy, Chris Kane Associates, which specialises in "getting smart people to smart places" - a much wider remit than just facilities or property. You can follow Chris on Twitter, his handle is @ChrisKane55.

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In the hustle and bustle of our 21st-century “always-on” lives most of us have little time to draw breath, to pause for a moment or two, to take time out. Advent 2015 for me is very different, I’m in a new ball game having stepped off the corporate merry-go-round in April.  


Scene from Banksy's Dismaland 2015 (butcher with lasagne)
It is a completely novel experience where every day is different.  


Every day is different
In setting out on this journey I realised that is was driven in part by my recognising that I can see things differently to many in my former profession. Change is never easy and leaving a full-time job to step out into the unknown world of self-employment is not something that most people do on a voluntary basis.  So far it has been very meaningful and productive in ways I couldn’t have foreseen. 
Scene from Frank Capra's 1946 film, "It's a Wonderful Life"
Last year, Kate, reminded me of my Celtic roots by introducing Samhain as part of my Walking With The Spirits post.  This pre Christian tradition is a period of taking stock of the past year, celebrating those spirits that have passed on and for looking forward.  


Celtic calendar showing Samhain preceding Yule
In taking such a big leap into the unknown it is always helpful to have a bit of help and I’m fortunate in having a good support network. This blog is about the help I got from my friend Nigel which I describe as a comet like relationship, something to be celebrated.
Nigel Roberts
When one is navigating a new course it is always helpful to have a guiding light. Sailors will recognise the importance of the Sun and the North Star but over the last 2 years I had my own guiding light that helped me move to my new world. During times of great change the thought of jumping off the fast moving carousel of corporate life can be daunting 



and a helping, yet challenging hand is very useful.  When thinking about a topic for this blog it struck me that comets are buzzing around the universe all the time yet we can only see them at certain times or with special equipment.  For example, Halley’s comet, only appears in our skies every 75 years.


Halley' comet
Most of us, myself included, assume comets streak through the sky and are gone in a flash. A useful metaphor for the transience of life maybe?  The more experienced astrologists amongst us will tell us that comets can be in orbit for up to 200 years and may be visible from earth for up to 18 months to 2 years. We are all agreed, no doubt, that it is fantastic to witness such a marvellous sight whizzing through the skies.


1908 article, from The San Francisco Call, predicting return of Halley's comet in 1910
Opening a new chapter enabled me to forge new relationships and to build stronger links with others. Nigel Roberts was somebody whom I came across when I went back to school in 2013. He was the interviewer from hell during my media skills training course, having learnt that I worked at his alma matter – the BBC. There was something about this spiky Mancunian that I admired and we decided to keep in touch. Over the past 2 years we developed quite a rapport as he guided me along the path of setting up on my own and how best to use the media.  Nigel pointed out the dangers of “spin triumphing over substance” and a host of other little gems. Little did we realise that like seeing a comet charging across the skies our journey together would be short lived.
Hale Bopp as seen in early 1997
In August, I learned of his untimely death and felt a deep loss of a genuine human being who had the rare knack of being insightful, entertaining and sometimes irreverent. For example, he wrote about the toxic office.   Attending his funeral it was not surprising to see a packed house filled with many people who had come to give him a good send-off. I wonder how long the coal dust of his comet tail will linger?  I suspect for quite some time as he had a big impact on a wide range of people from his Leeds University mates to his media colleagues to his family and friends.


Orionid meteor shower (formed from the dust left by Hally's comet)


Leaving your mark as a legacy



Monday, 12 January 2015

Walking with the Spirits - Day 44

Day 44 (13th January 2015)
44th President of the United States of America - Barack Obama
elected in 2009
Obama has 44 confirmed cousins in the US Senate

Chris Kane came into my world in 2014 through the link up between BIFM and the CIPD to determine what the workplaces of the future should be like. Chris is an engaging Irishman and a recognised global leader in Facilities design and management. He was head of Corporate Real Estate at the BBC, before becoming CEO of the BBC's Commercial Projects (a part time role that enables him to be a Non Executive Director for the NHS and director of a housing association). He lives in London but travels with regularity around the world, where his workplace knowledge and insightful advice is requested. He is active on social media - check out his YouTube pages or follow him on Twitter, his handle is @ChrisKane55 or read his internationally followed blog. He is engaging to meet and chat with in real life too...

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When Kate suggested I contribute to this series, my initial thought was that I would be way out of my depth: it felt like a major challenge. However, when you get positive encouragement, coupled with some inspiration,  it’s remarkable what one can overcome. For me, the inspiration was prompted by reflecting on recent events that included the death of a close friend and the end of a 17 year journey of uncertainty.
Life in 2014 (and now 2015) is fast-moving, complex and challenging; it affords little time for reflection and thought. For many of us the simple things and matters spiritual are just not on the agenda. I wonder why? Sitting down to write this post, I have taken a step back from the day-to-day buzz of things temporal to consider the path I have followed and what is really important.


Escaping The Turmoil, by Mel Brigg, acrylic on linen
Last week I learned that my childhood best friend - my next-door neighbour and my rugby playing buddy - had passed away. There is little I can do aside from comforting David’s family and reflecting on the good times and the paths we followed. Receiving such sad and shocking news can be numbing, but it also inevitably jolts one into thinking about what actually matters. It may be cliche to say, but such thoughts almost invariably lead to 'people'.



Having spent a lot of my professional life moving clients and organisations to new buildings, I learned at an early stage that is not just about bricks and mortar: as readers of my blog are probably all too aware, the human experience is central. So many of my peers focus on the real estate deal, the interior design, the operating costs, but fail to grasp the people dimension. Human beings have concerns, emotions, needs and agendas, all of which need to be considered.
This idea was thrown into sharp relief recently when dealing with the relocation of the home of London Irish Rugby football club to a new training ground. Back in 1997, when this long-standing rugby club entered the professional era, it embarked on a lengthy period of uncertainty.  The future of the club’s home The Avenue was up for grabs: the alternative use value for residential was a much better financial proposition than playing pitches.
London Irish's final game at The Avenue vs. Saracens
To cut a long story short, this 17 year journey or long drawn out Advent, which saw the club splitting and diverging (Amateur and Professional), has now come to a satisfactory conclusion. The old place is no more, and we have a new home down the road.
London Irish new training ground in Sunbury
The Avenue was very important to the lives of a great many people in the diaspora; the ashes of many club members have been scattered on its hallowed ground over 79 years. There was a strong feeling that this spiritual connection had to be honoured and that a traditional tape cutting ceremony would not suffice.
And so we gathered at The Avenue as churchmen spoke, rubbed earth on a rugby ball and watched 


Fr Patrick Devine blessing the ball
as 23 players aged from 5 to 55, both amateur and professional, carry this 'spirit' of the club to its new home. 


Ball relay to the new grounds - U6 player Lars Esse,
flanked by London Irish players, carries the rugby ball in to Hazelwood
(Photo: Malcolm McNally)
For the people whose relatives had chosen to have their remains there it was important to see that the club had not overlooked their loved ones in the move to a new place. 
Memorial bench
Some of us chose to walk with the spirits of former club mates in a small gesture of solidarity to pay our respects to the ones that are gone before us.  It served as an opportunity to reflect on and anticipate what life will be like in the new home, this 'rebirth' – an important aspect of Advent. We walked secure in the knowledge that, superficial things aside (moving the playing kit, the posts, the offices), the spirit both of the old world and the new had been honoured.
Samhain - celtic period from 1st November to 31st January
Traditionally starts with a day of honouring the spirits
before looking forward.
It was a powerful and timely reminder to this London Irish boy that place is so much more than what you can see or touch: it's a feeling - and if we want our spaces to really work, we can't ignore that.
To belong in a place is a feeling



Clearly happy to be together at the new place
Former london Irish players - John Gilligan, Chris Kane, Michael Connole and Peter Whiteside