The 4th January marks 33 years since I said "I do" in the atmospheric and historic Temple Church in London, surrounded by family, friends, and the echoes of centuries past. I wore a dress made by my stepsister and both my sisters were bridesmaids. Reflecting on this milestone, I’m struck by the resonance of the number 33—a number deeply tied to cycles, beginnings, and growth.
The moon takes 33 years to complete its full solar cycle, so
tonight is the first time, since my wedding, that the moon is back in its
original position. I intend to go outside tight and look into the night sky. The
lunar calendar, with its 33-year cycle, shows that life often brings us back to
where we began, albeit with new perspectives and deeper wisdom. Just as the
moon waxes and wanes, our journey together has seen moments of light and shadow.
The shadow can help you appreciate the light.
Staying on the theme of 33 - the human spine has 33
vertebrae, serving as the central support system for the body. Our marriage,
like a backbone, has had to be strong and flexible - capable of withstanding
the pressures of time while adapting to new circumstances. We are certainly
very different from how we were 33 years ago.
Over the past three decades, we’ve navigated change,
celebrated triumphs, and weathered challenges. Our two sons are, without doubt,
my highlights. Each has developed into a clever, independent, successful young
man led by clear values and I know that they have great futures ahead of them.
My anniversary is not just a celebration of the past but a
reminder to continue evolving, adapting, and finding strength in shared
experiences. Whether in personal relationships or professional endeavours, the
lesson remains the same: resilience, growth, and renewal go hand in hand.
Here’s to embracing life’s cycles, cherishing the past, and
looking forward to the journey ahead.
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