I am on vacation with my family in Croatia. Last
night we were about to head into Zagreb to find something to eat, and my
husband and I were waiting by the hotel reception for our sons to join us.
Seeing us there, the helpful receptionist asked me what time we would like
breakfast in the morning and whether we wanted a cooked “full English” or a “continental”.
I sent a text to the boys asking what they wanted and messages passed to and fro
for a while, with me informing the receptionist of their requests, until my
eldest typed that he could hear the relayed discussion, as he was seated just
out of sight in an alcove. This prompted me to say aloud that, given that he
could hear the conversation, it would make better sense for him to come and
join the discussion rather than our continuing to SMS each other.
A delightful Canadian lady standing nearby
burst into laughter at this and commented that she had teenage sons and so
understood.
At breakfast this morning (without the boys as they
had overslept), we found the Canadian couple seated at a table near us and so
we exchanged pleasantries and then fell into conversation. They are both
voice-over specialists – he an actor and she runs an agency (which is how they
first met). He specialises in cartoon voices (it’s not every day that you speak
to a rock star of the animated boulder variety). We chatted about the day being
the anniversary of Bambi’s
initial release in the UK (back on 8th August 1942)
and that the
voice of Bambi had been provided by a chap called Donnie Dunagan, who later
went into the US Marines. Throughout his distinguished military career Mr.
Dunagan never told a soul about what he had done as a child – it is only now that
he is comfortable speaking out – perhaps it was this discussion that triggered
my thoughts about people’s perceptions and hence the theme of this post.
Returning to the breakfast discussions – the couple
explained that this was their first trip abroad without their sons. They had
come to Europe to celebrate her 60th – he had arranged for them to
assist at the 20th
World Body Painting Festival in Austria, which was held in late July – body
painting being an art form that they both appreciate.
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| The Ship - a contestant in the 2017 WBP Festival |
They were responsible for
calming contestants prior to judging and making sure that things ran smoothly
behind the scenes – certainly a memorable way of commemorating a milestone
birthday.
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| A finalist in the 2017 Festival competition |
Body painting is an extraordinary art form so transient in itself,
although photos remain once the paint and brushwork has been washed away. As a
modern art form it has its roots in the 1960s with Veruschka
(AKA Vera
Lehdorff) being viewed by many as the godmother of the modern movement.
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| Veruschka |
Body painting, which entails disguising or transforming a model through paint, is
a laborious process usually taking over eight hours for the finished artwork to
be completed and at least 40 minutes to photograph.
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| 2017 Festival finalist |
It is usually an illusion,
transforming a person into something else, but also a way of expressing or
making the viewer react, observe and/or think in a different way.
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| Veruschka |
We covered many topics during breakfast (art, world
affairs, politics, travel and parenting), and then moved on to careers. I
really liked his tale of how the husband embarked on his career as a voice-over specialist and gained his influential
professional mentor and so I will share it here…
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| voice-over microphone |
Being gifted as a mimic and able to produce a range
of sounds and voices, he knew from when he was a child that he wanted to be an
actor and do voice-overs. Aged 16 he wrote to Paul Frees, who was
recognised as being the leading expert in the field and even today is known as
the “Man of a Thousand Voices”. He drafted a letter to him “Dear Mr Frees, I am
writing because I wish to become a voice-over specialist…” then crossed this
out and, on the same sheet of paper wrote “ This is an important letter, Dear
secretary or assistant to Mr Frees, I appreciate that you probably receive and
have to respond to many letters such as this. I admire Mr Frees work and
wondered whether he would be prepared to offer some advice…” , he then scored
this too out on the page and underneath commenced writing again “Dear Cleaner, thank
you for un-crushing this ball of crumpled waste paper you have found in the
trash. It was a letter to Mr Frees seeking his advice and guidance, but he is a
busy man…” He then popped the letter in an envelope and posted it to Paul Frees
in California. Frees wrote back saying “the cleaner gave me your letter…” Frees
asked for a demo tape and said that if it was good he would try to help him but
that if it was not up to the required standard he would not respond. Frees
liked the tape and a friendship was formed with Frees acting as a mentor and
valued advisor until his death in 1986. The impact of the letter composed by an
ambitious 16 year old just goes to show how important first impressions can be.
After breakfast we bid our farewells – the Canadian
couple to continue their post-Festival tour of Eastern Europe, while I and my
family decided to visit the Museum of Illusions here in Zagreb. There were no
transformational body paintings, although there were a number of trompe l’oeil and
other mind-baffling illusions. I enjoyed the Ames room, which tricks the
viewer into believing that two people apparently standing in adjacent corners
of a room are respectively a lanky giant and a fat midget – as demonstrated in this
picture of my son and me.
I have seen
this used to great effect in theatrical shows – most recently at the excellent
immersive show, Alice’s Adventures
Underground, in London. Appearances are important, but perhaps not as
important as knowing who you are, as Alice says to the Caterpillar in Alice
in Wonderland:
''I can't explain myself, I'm afraid, sir' said Alice, 'because I'm not myself, you see.''
This leads
me to a point made by Edward
de Bono, when he was interviewed in the Guardian back in 2007 (it is an
article worth reading in full):
“Studies have shown that 90% of error in thinking is due to error in perception. If you can change your perception you can change your emotion and this can lead to new ideas.”
I must confess that I rather wish that both
President Trump and Kim Jong-Un would consider donning different hats (as
recommended by de Bono); escalating aggression seldom resolves conflict and the
current bellicose threatening of ‘fire and fury” does not seem to me to be
likely to result in a positive outcome for any of us. But then, it all comes
down to perception.
